Well, the more we talk about it here, its really not the gear leg. The flow is coming from the tire and the pressures are simply pushing on the leg. A landing gear step would likely be too high up to affect it. 95% of the owners don't have them.
An Aluminum Landing Gear would have different frequencies and its also stiffer. Likely, putting it to rest. As much as we would love to sell you a pair, they are just not cheap.
I would try to make some homemade Vortex Generators and duct tape them on and try it out. If it works, You can get something more permanant. If not, well, you tried.
As for damage in current configuration, I would not be overly concerned. Just be diligent and change the through-bolt every 500 hours, as suggested. When you are swapping the thru-bolt just check for elongation in he fuselage attach hole. The U-bolt should not have an issue.