I too have to say "Wow", reading about Dan's incredible insight! Thanks Dan, and everyone else!
My story is about Scouts, a bit different ship of course: heavier, taller, stiffer gear, etc, but still a Champ in the end. I put about 1600 hours in AK on my first Scout, bought new in 1980. I always did 3 points, NEVER thought of wheelies. Then came my 185, then a 180...and I totaled the 185 in 1992 just because I did NOT do a wheel-landing (hi-winds in ND, returning to AK from OSH...huge $$ ouch only). I then had the mandated ride w/an FAA examiner in Fairbanks...and he required wheel-landings. It changed my flying totally. Unless doing 'bush' or off-airport landings, wheelies was ALL I did for 1500 hours thereafter. I sincerely feel that having that skill on those occasions saved me from (more) embarrassment during high crosswind/pavement landings.
2 years ago I was lucky to get back to a Scout, an almost new one. I bought it from a (very impatient...and unnamed) dealer who, during my checkout, angrily told me to NEVER do wheel-landings in ANYthing! I've had this 03 in AK for well over 100 hours now...and I do wheelies whenever I can to stay in practice...like the prior post, about 99% of the time!
In summary, I am not an expert. After 3300 hours I feel simply knowing HOW to do wheel-landings is the key. Such a landing option is just that, an option! If there's doubt, another airport into the wind is probably the best choice. However, it does take time to feel comfortable pushing that stick over and keeping it there!
Having said all this, I might be all wrong and regret it 'tomorrow'! Dan's experience and calm words can't be ignored...and now it makes me think twice! Thanks!!